I saw Bridesmaids with Collin last Thursday, almost a full week after the rest of the free world (or at least the sub-strata of the free world that is obsessed with weddings) saw it, because my schedule was a bit… cramped last weekend. So I had already heard from plenty of people I trust that it was somewhere from “pretty good” to “super great!” and I was able to confidently walk into the theater planning to laugh and have a good time. And I was not disappointed with Bridesmaids.
Let’s pause and rewind the tape here. Remember when the trailer for Bridesmaids came out? You probably tweeted it at me. And I tweeted back “YIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIKES” and “I can’t wait to rageblog that movie” and other grumpy and terse sentiments along those lines. The first trailer for Bridesmaids makes the movie look a) unfunny b) hateful of women c) hateful of weddings d) generally unpleasant.
I now believe this horrible trailer was an advertising Xanatos gambit. After that trailer, Bridesmaids went from being The Beacon of Hope for Women in Comedy to an early-summer popcorn pile that we’ll be dragged to with the ladies from the office and will maybe tolerate if we took proper advantage of the happy hour portion of the “Girl’s Night.” [This is my unemployed-person fantasy understanding of what yuppie women do for fun.]
So then all Bridesmaids had to do achieve was a level of sexism below “unrelenting” and a feature a few good laughs and it would trounce basement-level expectations and be a success. It no longer bore the responsibility of single-handedly making funny women viable movie stars.
At least, that was my take on it, and I consider myself particularly interested of the status of Women in Comedy, because more than half of my best friends are themselves women in comedy. But in an excellent piece for the A.V. club, Genevieve Koski laments that Bridesmaids suffers because “It isn’t enough for Bridesmaids to be a great comedy; it has to be a comedy that transcends the lady-movie ghetto, thereby becoming the thing to which all lady movies aspire.” so maybe, in avoiding that analysis, I’ve gone soft.
But you know where I have not and never will go soft? Holding wedding movies up to my exacting standards for the sub-genre. I’m giving the movie a pass on being Feminism’s Only Hope, so I’m not going to delve into trashing Bridesmaids for perpetuating stereotypes about women as fundamentally jealous and selfish, or singlehood as a signifier of failure for women (see also).
What I will talk about is wedding cake.
As Kristen Wiig’s character Annie is established as a lo-hoo-hoo-hoo-ser, we learn of her failed business venture, a bakery called Cake Baby. Normally in these kinds of movies the protagonist has an ambiguous job in publishing, so I took extra special note of Annie’s vocation. Plot happens. Every few scenes we are reminded of Annie’s baking prowess, and how the failure of her bakery is the sore spot that is really the crux of her self-esteem issues (sidebar: this is actually a really nice way Bridesmaids is able to alleviate the “single women are failures” problem. Later in the movie we learn the other single bridesmaid is very successful in her career and she explains that gives her the self-respect to not let haters keep her off her grind.)
When Annie and the bride, played by the criminally underused Maya Rudolph (although I feel like Maya Rudolph could have been in every scene in the movie and I would have wanted more of her), have a bit of a falling out, I thought to myself, “Oh, Annie will save the wedding when there is a cake emergency by whipping up a pastry masterpiece, thus saving her friendship and her life’s work in one fell swoop. Very clever, movie!”
But spoiler alert, that doesn’t happen. I was so convinced that Annie’s bakery was the small business version of Chekov’s gun for Bridesmaids that after the movie I wondered if I had MISSED that loose thread being sewn back in. Nope, we get the conventional romcom resolution of our protagonist’s character arc: she lands a dude. And she gets her best friend back, but through regular old-fashioned there-for-you-ness instead of convenient cake, which I guess I should be happy about. Still, I would have preferred if Annie got to save her friendship and save the day with a cake, riding off into the sunset of a second chance at her career dream instead of a second chance at love. It’s a tiny sticking point, but it really bugs me.
How engaged am I right now? We have this movie inspiring so much fascinating discussion about the state of our culture and I’m all, “BUT WHAT ABOUT THE CAKE?!”
May 23, 2011 at 4:05 pm
you know, I had the same thought–that in another movie Annie would have saved the day with a cake she whipped up, and Helen would have gone into business as a party planner, and thrown business Annie’s way. But I think that is the slightly lazier route, plot-wise. I like that they left it with Annie still being in a bad place work-wise. Though it’s not a REALISTIC movie with the all caps, I feel like it’s more genuine storytelling to not have it all tied up in a bow.
May 23, 2011 at 6:01 pm
Yeah I agree with Jen, I liked that it wasn’t all wrapped up neatly at the end. And I liked that while she ended up with the guy, it was still a cautious hanging out ending, not that he came to the wedding with her or (thank god) a flash-forward second wedding.
I really thought this was a movie about growing up and moving forward in life, not a wedding movie. Sort of like how Knocked Up was only sort of about pregnancy. It’s like sci-fi – you have a general plot to hold it all together, but there’s another, more interesting message underneath that. And while it won’t be winning any Oscars, I thought Bridesmaids did a good job of making me care about Annie and her life, while the wedding was a bit of an afterthought.
May 23, 2011 at 7:01 pm
1) I didn’t even think about a wedding cake all movie! Not even when Annie was lovingly handcrafting gumpaste flower petals. Now that you point it out it’s so obvious.
2) Is it just me, or did that trailer have a LOT of material that wasn’t in the movie at all?
May 23, 2011 at 9:21 pm
I really, really liked the movie — Wiig’s performance was perfectly understated (for the most part), which was refreshing because I find her to be a bit overexposed. I agree Maya could have been around more. She’s brill.
I was also VERY disappointed that Annie found a guy but didn’t really find herself. And *SPOILER ALERT* her baking comeback was what helped her GET the guy! I was so hoping that when she started baking again, it would be to inspire herself to get back out there and try again. Notsamuch. So in the end she was still broke, jobless, carless, and living with her mom — but doggonnit, she got the guy! Barf.
May 24, 2011 at 11:54 am
I think I’m the only engaged lady or bridesmaid that hasn’t seen this movie yet. I wish I had someone to go see it with. All of my brideswomen live far and have all seen it already! Grrrrr.
May 24, 2011 at 12:54 pm
I haven’t seen it either! We could go, sit in the back, and text all throughout. Maybe we should go to a matinee so people don’t kill us…
May 24, 2011 at 2:32 pm
You make a fair point about how the main character is, for once, not in publishing/marketing/journalism, but for my part, I thought OOG. ANOTHER BAKERY. I feel like that’s become such a cliche for ladies in movies too. I guess all hollywood thinks we’re good for is communicating/coordinating shit and baking. If it’s not a power gig she’s got, it’s a follow-your-heart bakery.
That said, I really enjoyed it. Weddings, emotional occasions that they are, and whether they’re your own or not, dredge up a lot of shit for many people involved, and Bridesmaids definitely explored that (since it was mostly about Kristen Wiig’s character and not Maya Rudolph’s. And called Bridesmaids, for that matter). There were a few annoying things that were never resolved or explained, but Jon and I both laughed a lot.
May 25, 2011 at 2:34 pm
I’m holding my breath for the follow-your-heart pizzeria-owning RomCom protagonist, because that’s my secret dream.
May 25, 2011 at 11:31 am
I just want to take a selfish moment to point out that Annies are always, always kooky best friends to the leading ladies in the movies, and it pisses me off.
May 25, 2011 at 2:35 pm
Or little orphans.
May 27, 2011 at 10:37 am
OH YEAH THAT ONE. She’s probably the best fictional Annie ever.
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